Alright, so some time ago, I set up this Seattle Singles mail list for those of us who are single in the bdsm lifestyle. Then I hooked up with Tyr, so it pretty much sat idle unless someone posted an ad. However, the vision I had when I started was more than just a place to put personal ads and hope someone reads it. Right now, I'm not quite sure what to do with it. Discussions mabye? If so, what to discuss? I was thinking too, of having list get togethers. The issue with this is, I don't want it to be a meat market if I can avoid it. I'm thinking though it would be nice to meet other single people into the lifestyle, and form friendships. I know the danger of that is the whole meat market issue. I'd also like to do live discussions/panels. Just not sure how to set those up, or where. Any ideas?