We discussed this whole thing with his ex-wife. I thought it was kind of sad when the first thing he said was that he wasn't sure of her intentions...in a way that left me to believe that he didn't trust her. Suits me fine. I told him that I would go meet her, in public, but that she would *not* have my address. I don't trust that she wouldn't show up on my doorstep screaming at me (or worse) someday. *shudder* He said that he'd just have her send the stuff to his mom's. He doesn't really want me involved in the drama. I thank him for trying to protect me from it :) I'm just sorry that he has to go through it.
He said that he needed my address, he bought me something to let me know he was thinking of me :) I know he does, even when I don't always think about it. I know it when he pops online and we connect, even for a short time, ya know? He doesnt have to buy me things for me to know it. Don't get me wrong, I'm thrilled that he got me something, I just don't ever want him to feel that he *has* to.